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Trust is not an easy thing to build with someone (especially if you've been betrayed in the past), but you should have f...
24/01/2022

Trust is not an easy thing to build with someone (especially if you've been betrayed in the past), but you should have faith in the person with whom you intend to spend the rest of your life. Should you build a partnership on a foundation of mistrust, you risk lacking both physical and emotional intimacy. Plus, you can almost guarantee that eventually your partner will get fed up and walk away.

It's hard to focus on the present when you're busy living in the past. And this is especially true in a romantic relatio...
24/01/2022

It's hard to focus on the present when you're busy living in the past. And this is especially true in a romantic relationship, as your complete and undivided emotional and physical presence are required in order to make things work. If you want your current relationship to last, leave the past in the past and let go of the things that are holding you back.

In a 2014 study published in the journal Current Directions in Psychological Science, researchers determined that the pe...
24/01/2022

In a 2014 study published in the journal Current Directions in Psychological Science, researchers determined that the people you love most are also the people you're most likely to take your anger out on, given that you interact with them more than anyone. But unfortunately, what they also found is that "aggression is harmful to individuals and to relationships," meaning that the more you hurt the people you love, the more you risk pushing them away.

Having contempt for your partner is one of the four behaviors that Gottman says is a telltale indicator of an impending ...
24/01/2022

Having contempt for your partner is one of the four behaviors that Gottman says is a telltale indicator of an impending divorce. In his research, he polled couples on how often they behaved with contempt, criticism, defensiveness, and stonewalling. Then, he measured perceived relationship satisfaction and found that the behaviors were over 90 percent successful in predicting divorce.

According to Gottman, seeing your partner as inferior in particular is the "kiss of death" for any relationship. And this makes sense, given that another 2010 study published in the Journal of Marriage and Family found that couples who showed contempt for each other within their first year of marriage were more likely to divorce before their 16th wedding anniversary. Feel like things are past the point of no return? These are the 15 Signs You Should Go to Couples Therapy.

Have you ever found yourself crying in a fit of rage while your partner hasn't so much as shed a tear? This may be a sig...
24/01/2022

Have you ever found yourself crying in a fit of rage while your partner hasn't so much as shed a tear? This may be a sign that your relationship is on the rocks. A couple's meta-emotions—that is, how they feel about emotion—need to be on the same page. As marriage researcher John Gottman, PhD, discovered, meta-emotion mismatches were 80 percent accurate in predicting divorce. Basically, it's not about the conflict itself—it's about handling it in a complementary way to how your partner handles it.

"Seldom has so little been said in so many words."—Bosley Crowther, The New York Times
18/12/2021

"Seldom has so little been said in so many words."

—Bosley Crowther, The New York Times

"Judging by the movie's enduring popularity, the message that stupidity is redemption is clearly what a lot of Americans...
18/12/2021

"Judging by the movie's enduring popularity, the message that stupidity is redemption is clearly what a lot of Americans want to hear."

–Jonathan Rosenbaum, Chicago Reader

"A chunk of elegant occultist claptrap… The devil, it seems, for all his supposed powers, can't break and enter without ...
18/12/2021

"A chunk of elegant occultist claptrap… The devil, it seems, for all his supposed powers, can't break and enter without sounding like Laurel and Hardy trying to move a piano."

—Vincent Canby, The New York Times

"I don't mean to be cynical, but isn't prison life supposed to be a little less nostalgic than this?"—Ed Gonzalez, Slant
18/12/2021

"I don't mean to be cynical, but isn't prison life supposed to be a little less nostalgic than this?"

—Ed Gonzalez, Slant

"No one has yet made a romantic comedy in which, say, a toxic-waste dumper falls for a terrorist hijacker. (They meet cu...
18/12/2021

"No one has yet made a romantic comedy in which, say, a toxic-waste dumper falls for a terrorist hijacker. (They meet cute in an airport check-in line, and she's got a bomb in her luggage.) But Pretty Woman comes close to finding the least admirable characters to build a feel-good movie around."

—Richard Corliss, Time

"For the most part, things simply jump out and go 'boo!'"—Dave Kehr, Chicago Reader
18/12/2021

"For the most part, things simply jump out and go 'boo!'"

—Dave Kehr, Chicago Reader

"Clueless has a meandering plot that has something to do with Cher doing nice things for people—if they're wearing the r...
18/12/2021

"Clueless has a meandering plot that has something to do with Cher doing nice things for people—if they're wearing the right clothes, that is… It's like biting into a tamale and finding it filled with Marshmallow Fluff."

—Owen Gleiberman, Entertainment Weekly

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