21/08/2026
Many of your read about our Tattoo weekend adventure - sadly I share this dreadful news!
To All of Ned’s very dear friends. I am so very sorry to have to tell you that Ned passed away on Wednesday morning. Ned is undoubtedly the bravest person I know. This bravery was reflected in his military career, which was sadly cut short when he was diagnosed with Motor Neurone Disease. It is his bravery and determination that then turned a 2 year life expectancy into the 23 years that he lived with this horrendous disease. It says everything about Ned - on one hand he was determined, a fighter, steely and extremely stubborn. On the other, he was loving, caring, cheeky, a listener and so attuned to other people’s needs, often putting them before his own. Despite MND robbing him of almost every physical movement, he managed to achieve so much more than most able bodied people I know. With the help of his amazing support team, he kept connected and part of all our lives, bringing people together through the common friendship that we have that is ‘Ned’. He truly cared about us all. He loved life right until the end and always took pleasure in other people’s happiness and their achievements.
We were blessed with the birth of our amazing son Rory almost 19 years ago. There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that Rory was a huge part of Ned’s reason for living, and as Rory grew, Ned’s heart swelled with pride more and more each day. I am so very grateful that Ned got to share Rory’s amazing A level results just over a week ago. I am grateful that Ned got to be a part of Rory’s life on a daily basis, nurturing, advising and guiding him along the way. It has made Rory who he is today - the best son we both could ever wish for.
Despite Ned living with a terminal disease, we were never ready for Wednesday morning. We still had lots to do and I wish more than anything that I could have kept him here longer. Blue skies, fly high Ned and be free from the earthly burdens which you endured with so much dignity. I love you more than words can ever say and I will be lost without you, as will many others.
Please all remember Ned and keep those friendships going. It’s what makes the world a better place.