11/06/2026
I’ve been doing a lot of thinking recently. Dangerous, I know!
A social media post caught my attention this week. Not the original post, but the comments underneath it.
The discussion centred around a couple who had made the heartbreaking decision to terminate a pregnancy involving Down’s syndrome.
There were 179 comments!!!
What fascinated me wasn’t that people were offended by the language they used. I can understand that.
What fascinated me was that I couldn’t find anyone talking about the parents.
Nobody seemed curious about what they might have been going through.
Nobody seemed interested in understanding the pain that may have created those words.
It got me thinking about something much bigger.
How often do we react to what we can see without ever questioning what created it?
I see this everywhere. In life, business, relationships and in leadership.
We judge the words, the behaviour, the decisions and the reactions, but rarely stop to ask what experiences sit underneath them.
Maybe that’s why I’ve always been more interested in understanding people than judging them.
Maybe that’s why I spend so much of my time looking for the story underneath.
Anyway, one thought turned into another, which turned into several thousand words.
The result is my latest article:
The Story Underneath
I’d love to know whether it resonates with you, challenges you, or whether you think I’ve completely lost the plot.
Link in the comments.