09/04/2026
1) As a girl, every man should not know where you live. Have some discretion.
2) Make sure any decision you make in life, whether it's about marriage, career, or childbearing, is based on your personal conviction, not influence from others, parents, or society.
3) If possible, switch routes when going home. Don't be fond of using one route home.
4) Don't give people the impression that you live alone.
5) Mind the gifts you get from people. Some people use gifts to communicate their feelings, hoping you'll realize. The moment you fail to understand, issues can start.
6) Attention is not always love. Someone can show you attention without loving you.
7) Anytime you feel pain, whether it's in your body, during cramps, pregnancy, or after childbirth, don't ignore it. Seek help. Feeling pain is your body's way of seeking attention, give your body the attention it deserves.
8) Keep your name clean, your reputation might become more valuable or influential in the future. Having a good reputation can open doors or create opportunities. A bád reputation can affect you negatively in the future.
9) Don't let any man slow you down. Don't keep your dreams waiting because of a man. You might regret it.
10) You don't need to have sé'x with every guy you date. Honour your body.
11) Set principles and be stubbórn when necessary. In this generation, people expect women to be extremely nice, believing it'll secure them a husband. Don't condone what you shouldn't just to appear nice. It will get you used, and what you deserve won't be given.
12) When you make mistakes, forgive yourself and move on. You can't move forward if you keep dwelling on your past.
13) Don't marry a man you can't have difficult conversations with. If he dismisses you during difficult conversation before marriage, he'll likely do the same in marriage. He might even thréáten to leave and you'll end up seeking advice online here and there. Marital issues are easier to solve with a partner who listens and communicates openly.
14) Don't talk too much. You don't need to share everything with everyone, not even your best friend. Yes, even if someone is your best friend, keep some information private.
15) Most times, don't ignore the little voice whispering to you. It's not overthinking, it's not fear. It's your intuition trying to guide you.
16) Don't get pregnant to impress anyone, not even your husband. If your body doesn't feel right, rest. If anything happens to you, the world will move on.
17) Try to get your money. It will save you from alot of issues, including abúsé.
18) If you're the first daughter, learn to say "No" without feeling guilty. It's okay to rest and take a break from responsibilities. No be you born your siblings, you're also part of your siblings. Don't play the role of a parent too much else you might overwhelm yourself or lose out.
19) There is nothing wrong with you if you're not in a relationship. When the right time comes, it will happen.
20) If you want to marry early before fulfilling your career goals, make sure you marry a supportive man, or your dreams could be shattered.
21) There are families you marry into, no matter how kind and good you are to them, they still see you as an outsider. Have your savings, it's very important, just in case.
22) When a good man proposes marriage while you're still young, be sensitive enough to make a decision that's right for you. Don't say no just because of influence from friends or society, or because you're young. You might miss out on a good opportunity forever. Say No because you're convinced it's the right decision for you.
