08/29/2026
THE REAL DEVELOPERS IN THE ROOM WERE WOMEN.
I just finished three days of developer training with people from all over the United States.
Something stood out to me.
There were plenty of people in the room who were thinking about becoming developers, learning about development, or trying to figure out how to get started.
But the people who were actually developing—managing multimillion-dollar projects—were women.
So I asked one of the emerging developers a simple question:
“Why do you think so many women are leading the way in development?”
Her answer made me think.
She said, “Because women are nurturers.”
She talked about how women often think about their families, their children, their communities, and what they’re going to leave behind.
And suddenly development looked a little different to me.
Maybe development isn’t just about buildings.
Maybe it’s about building something that outlives you.
These women came from all different walks of life. Most never planned on becoming developers. One opportunity led to another, they saw needs that had to be met, and somewhere along the journey—they became developers.
That’s one of the biggest lessons I took away from those three days:
You don’t have to start out as a developer. You can become one.
And sometimes it begins with simply getting in the room.
If you’re thinking about development and you’d like to be in rooms with other like-minded people who are learning, building and creating legacy, stay connected with me.
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