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17/08/2026

Plot for sale on title.

size 20m x 30m
1.5km behind Mutakwa Primary school along Mungule Rd.
has built in pillars all around the plot. Going at K70,000. Those interested call me on 0962069844

22/07/2026

Bane, I saw a few comments after I mentioned that my wife and I are best friends, and that because of that, we rarely have serious differences. Some of you concluded, "Doc, it's because you have money. She simply overlooks your flaws." 😂

I understand. Times have changed. Love has become more transactional than ever before.

Bane, I genuinely fear for some of my young brothers looking to marry today. Some are under pressure to provide a lifestyle that even their future father-in-law has never experienced. 😂

My Sweet 16 and I were fortunate to find each other before the noise of society could define our expectations. We are both villagers at heart, and we were never driven by appearances.

I still remember buying her flowers for her birthday. The following day, bane, I found them in the bin. 🤣 At first I was shocked, but then I understood. Where we came from, flowers were not what we associated with love. To her, practical support spoke louder than petals.

When I told her, "Let's live a simple life until we establish the Great North Road Academy Group," she didn't hesitate.

That is how we found ourselves living in a one-room house in Avondale, cooking on a small makeshift stove balanced on bricks, while building Exams Made Easy and running the Great North Road Academy Tuition Centre together.

We struggled together. We sacrificed together. We prayed together.

Today, we enjoy the fruit of that journey together.

Bane, many people see the destination and assume that is what holds a marriage together.

No.

There is a unique bond that develops when two people have walked through uncertainty, disappointments, setbacks, victories, and answered prayers together. Money may improve your lifestyle, but it cannot manufacture that history.

Sometimes I think the real challenge is not marriage itself. The challenge is how we choose our partners.

We are becoming experts at choosing with our eyes while ignoring the heart. We chase beauty before character, comfort before values, and status before purpose.

Bane, attraction may introduce you to someone.

But friendship, shared values, sacrifice, and a common vision are what keep two people together long after the excitement fades.

05/05/2026

IT HURTS BIG TIME
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They say, “You are a Man, have emotional maturity”

“What do you mean emotional maturity
when it hurts so hard?”

Tell me...
how much must a man sacrifice for his children
before he is shattered into pieces?

How much must a man love a woman
to be respected
and appreciated?

Who can hear my story....
not just to hear it,
not just to consume it like information
that sounds good in the ears
like ice cream served in the mouth,
hitting the saliva glands on the right notes—

but to actually feel my pain
and help me?

The temptation is there....
to let it all out on social media.

“Let the world hear me,” a voice whispers.

But social media is not kind.

It doesn’t take your pain to ease it,
it pushes it to the limit,
until you regret opening your mouth,
and you feel even more lonely…
and hurt.

Because some people
are not listening to help you🤔

they are listening
to confirm what they already believe.

“I knew it.”
“I said it.”

Others want to hear your story
when you are strong,
not to support you,
but to find where to break you.

They listen carefully,
not with care,
but with strategy, gathering information about you.

They collect your words,
your weakness,
your truth,

and use it against you.

They say,
“Behind every successful man, there is a woman.”

But show me a woman
who pushed a man into success
without her own interest
or benefit.

How many women really stick with you when things are not going right.

Men have educated women,
helped them get jobs,
become more—

while the man himself
only wanted a wife
in the true sense—
a helper
to run the family.

But how many women leave their men
when they fail to provide
as expected?

Before any difference,
any quarrel,
any separation—

people ask the man,
“What did you do to her?”

Women are always victims.

The story of a man
is rarely believed.

It is taken with a pinch of salt.

But when a woman speaks,
everybody listens.
They sympathize
without even questioning.

That is why most men
do not go out there
to express themselves,
to tell their story—

because their stories
are rarely believed.

“The pain is real,” I say.

But as a man,
they say you must be strong.

“Just suffer in silence.”

So…

I end here.

18/12/2025

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